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  • Homecoming

    The word started spreading yesterday.  "He’s out of Iraq."  "Is he in New York?" "Not sure, but he’s definitely not in Iraq anymore."  Then later: "I have good info that Dave is back." "Really?"  "Heard from the doctor himself." 

    Whew. 

    As you may recall, my friend David was shipped off to Iraq at the end of August.  Last night, he strolled into Otto, a little thinner, but all in one piece.  I can barely express what a relief it was to see him in person and give him a hug, and even something as simple as sharing a bottle of wine with him again felt incredibly special.  Welcome home, David!

  • Cookin’

    In the comments of my last post, Kris asked if I cook supremely.  I’m not sure I cook supremely (you’ll have to ask people who have tasted my cooking — any comments from the peanut gallery?), but I do cook.  In fact, every time I cook I realize that I don’t cook as often as I’d like to.  Why?  Well, first of all, my kitchen is on the small side.  Not bad for a New York apartment, but certainly not spacious.  I like cooking and eating with friends, and although I can just about squeeze in one other person to chop something while I’m at the stove, I can’t really cook with someone.  In my dream kitchen I’ll have a big island where friends can sip wine, nibble, and chop things while I’m doing the same.  Now, I just have people sit in chairs near the kitchen so I don’t feel left out.  Second, it’s really not that easy to cook for one.  Yes, you can cook a large amount and end up with leftovers for lunch and whatnot, which is a good thing (although I have recently met someone who doesn’t eat leftovers.  At all.  I find this very odd.), but sometimes I just end up with a little too much for one meal, but not quite enough for two.  Tonight I made simple steamed mussels with white wine, garlic, and chili flakes — it would have been a perfect meal for two with a salad.  It was too much for just me, and I didn’t really think the leftovers would keep in this case, so I threw them out.  Such a shame. 

    Regardless, I really do want to cook more and eat out less — just one resolution that I’m trying to start a little early.  I’ve also gotten a fantastic coffee mug so that I can bring coffee to work in the morning — resolution number two.  Stay tuned for the next one — it’s a doozy.

  • Go Team!

    Earlier this week, I went out to dinner with my Gothamist Food team to D’Or Ahn, which recently opened in a sleek, narrow, and yet comfortable space  in Chelsea.  As I was sitting down to write about it, I read Youngna’s post, and, to be honest, she described it perfectly, even down to Frank Bruni’s criticism of Lannie Ahn, who couldn’t have been sweeter to us.  Thanks again to my wonderful, amazing, and inspiring team, without whom Gothamist Food wouldn’t survive: Martha, Youngna, Joe, Tamara, and Vittles Vamp (who, sadly, couldn’t join us for dinner).

  • Reason Number 574

    that I’ll never really grow up:  I had planned for a quiet night tonight.  And in my book, it was, indeed, a quiet night.  I ended up going up to Strawberry Fields after work to reflect on the 25th anniversary of John Lennon’s death.  I can’t believe it has been that long — I remember hearing about it on the news as a kid back in D.C.  I had returned home when Nathan called — he is a huge Beatles fan — he has built a huge model of John Lennon’s self-portrait (out of Lego, naturally), and today he received an email from Yoko Ono, extending her praise and thanks for his work.  Pretty amazing.  Anyway, I digress.  I spent some time at home, cleaning up my apartment, sorting through my never ending piles of mail.  I changed into my pajamas and was still puttering around when Augie called from upstairs (he and Lauren live in my building).  He and Rob had just returned from a wine tasting and I he insisted I come up and try the leftovers — no matter that I was in my pajamas.  I went up for about an hour, sipping wine and chatting with Augie, Lauren and Rob, and then headed down to bed. 

    But the thing that went through my mind as I walked down the stairs in my pajamas, was: it’s just like being back in a dorm.  Of course, I meant just the good parts — the padding around in pajamas, impromptu gatherings with friends, and being within a few floors of some of your closest friends.  If only it could stay that way forever  . . .  Well, I’ll enjoy it for as long as I can!

  • Shapin’ Up

    I used to be in much better shape than I am now.  Merely a few short years ago, I participated in several long distance bike rides, and training for these rides meant not only spending a majority of my weekends on a bike, but also going to spinning and weight training classes before work every day.  Even after the cycling season was over, I’d keep up with the spinning and weight training, and I even became quite flexible by doing yoga at least once a week.  At that time, I belonged to New York Sports Club.  It’s nothing fancy, but it’s everywhere.  Near work, near home, near wherever you have dinner plans — there’s a NYSC.  About a year ago, I gave up NYSC for the convenience of the gym in my building.  Granted, it’s amazing to have that convenience on a cold winter’s day when bundling up to go to the gym just a few blocks away seems like an insurmountable obstacle, but in reality, I just don’t push myself as hard as I do in the classes at NYSC.  Since I re-joined on Friday evening, I went to a spin class before brunch at Five Points with the girls on Saturday, I went to Vinyasa Yoga on Sunday before some holiday shopping and my one meal of the day (brunner?) at Babbo (more on that soon — it was my first visit), and went to a body sculpting class during lunchtime today.  Tomorrow is spinning again, either before work or during lunch.  I’m a little tired, and I already know that my shoulders will be sore tomorrow, but I feel good.   For me, the classes really help me to motivate.  Although I worked out often in my gym downstairs, I didn’t work out hard, which is what I need.  So — who’s up for a spin?

  • Feed Me!

    If you read this blog on any even semi-regular basis, you know that I love food.  Not only does it make me happy in many ways and serve as a focus for many of my social gatherings, but it also saves many of those in my life from exposure to some major crankiness.  Reading this article in the New York Times yesterday made me think of so many instances in my life when just having a snack made all the difference between being bitchy, cranky, and snappy and being my rather pleasant, normal self.  I firmly believe that it is always helpful to carry a "cranky snack" around if you suffer from the same affliction — I often tuck away small baggies of nuts or easily packable fruit leather — nibbling on a few almonds can return sanity when it has slipped away due to hunger. 

    When Nathan and I moved in together*, we went to Ikea to shop for a dining table.  It was clear very quickly that we had two completely different ideas about what we were looking for: I wanted a table that could expand to fit more people for all the dinner parties we were going to have; he wanted something as cheap as possible.  If it wasn’t for the Ikea cafeteria and their Swedish meatballs, we probably wouldn’t have made it through that shopping trip (he gets rather cranky when he gets hungry), let alone through well over a year of living together.

    Come to think of it, I’m kind of hungry now .  .  .

    * John B. was kind enough to point out that I made it sound like Nathan and I are currently living together.  We’re not.  That was right after law school — 1997.  We’re still friends, though!

  • Just a Glimpse

    It’s interesting what you can learn about someone by taking a glance at the books on their nightstand:

    Books

    I swear that this is an unstaged photo. I will admit, however, that I’m not really reading the Robber Bride or The Whore’s Child at the moment, so they’re more like decoration, but the rest I’ve at least picked up once or twice lately.   Let the comments begin.

  • That Boy . . .

    Jakejust can’t keep a secret.  I was on the subway today, peering over someone’s shoulder at the cover of Details magazine, where my boy Jake Gyllenhaal is peering at me.  On the cover of the magazine it says something like "Jake Gyllenhaal, trying to deny that he’s in love."  Isn’t that just the cutest thing?  We’ve tried so hard to keep it under wraps, but you heard it here first, folks.  Jake and I are in love.  No matter that he’s 10 years my junior.  "It’s like an Ashton/Demi thing," says Jake.  He’s so wise for his age.  Sigh.

    Ah yes, back to reality.  Now, where was I?  Thanksgiving. 

    Well, although Jake and I are, in reality, not all schmoopy in love, I do in fact have many other things for which to be thankful this year:  easy Thanksgiving Eve travel (despite last minute changes in plans), waking up to snow flurries on Thanksgiving day, two kinds of cranberry sauce, pumpkin cheesecake, reuniting with long-lost camp friends, family trips to the gym, lobster rolls with lots of butter (and no mayo), barbecue, Lucy, turkey hash, dim sum, naps, Rent, and a homemade turkey pot pie in the freezer.  Thanks to all for a great weekend.

  • Where Does the Time Go?

    You know it’s bad when your own sister is insulting the lameness of your blog posts (sorry, Katie, but I really was excited about the new sneaks!).  What I’ve learned is that there’s no way to work out, write for Gothamist, and write here all before work, and unfortunately, this tends to come last.  And when I’m working out in the morning, I go to bed earlier.  It’s a never-ending cycle. 

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    Last weekend, thanks to a hot tip from Tien, Rob and I headed out to Flushing to eat soup dumplings from Din Tai Fung, a Taiwanese restaurant that set up shop for a few weekends here in New York.  Some say their soup dumplings are the world’s best, and I certainly won’t argue.  Not only were they beautiful, but they were delicate and light, and absolutely delicious.  After dumplings we walked around Flushing to check out the rest of the neighborhood.  All I can say is go take a field trip to the end of the 7 train because there is so much good food out there — Chinese bakeries, hand-pulled ramen noodles, Chinese and Latin roasted chickens, Indian and Asian markets (where I saw these "tacos"), kabobs — an overwhelming selection.  And you can even walk some of it off at the Queens Botanical Garden, which is right nearby.

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    In theory, I’m heading up to Maine tomorrow morning, but the weather reports (sleet, snow) have gotten the family in a panic.  We’ll see how it goes.  Wish me luck and have a great Thanksgiving!

  • What Am I Doing Wrong? Using GMail

    Those of you who have GMail may be familiar with the "Sponsored Links" section of the page, where Google thoughtfully selects advertising links related to the content of your email.  I had emailed Rob last week to ask him about a date he went on.  The subject line of the email was "date."  Google, in its infinite wisdom, selected the following links for my perusal:

    Keep Your Mr. Right
    Free Report – 10 Mistakes Women Make That Scare Away Mr.Right
    www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com

    When it comes to Men
    have you ever asked yourself – What Am I Doing Wrong?
    www.relationshipheadquarters.com

    I haven’t yet checked out these links, but damn, Google, way to play into everyone’s worst dating fears.  Nice.