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  • The Great Labor Day Chill

    It’s my last hour at my folks’ house in Portland and I wanted to check in before I headed off to our cabin on the lake. Although I have missed being part of the action back home, I think I’m glad that I’m here rather than in the midst of the fray, but I can thank the photobloggers for making me feel like I had a taste of the more positive things going on back home.

    When I leave NYC, and particularly when I come up here, I slow down dramatically, to the point where words like “sloth” and “lethargy” come to mind. In fact, I was talking to a friend on the phone last night who commented that I even sounded more relaxed. Could be. But this afternoon the word “relax” becomes the focus of my weekend, as I head out to Casco, where my only concrete goals are: 1) to eat lobster at the Naples Lobster Pound; 2) to fall asleep in the hammock, while reading Appetite for Life, Julia Childs’ biography, and listening to the sounds of the lake; 3) to finish the baby hat I’m knitting for a friend before I return home; and 4) to have a chocolate ice cream soda at Pears, the ice cream joint in “town,” which is little more than a gas station, a library, and a church.

    A handful of friends were supposed to come up from NY, Boston, and elsewhere, but couldn’t quite pull together the travel arrangements. I’ll have some local visitors, and a friend of mine from DC is at his family’s house nearby, so I’ll get to see him too. Enjoy your long weekend, folks, and don’t forget to slow down and chill, wherever you may be.

  • Postcards from the Big Apple

    As I’ve mentioned, I am telecommuting this week — my office is right by the site of the RNC, and we didn’t want to be caught in the fray. I have been doing my best to keep up with all that’s going on, though, and a great source has been Gothamist, who has been posting excellent photoblogger roundups of all the protests and other activity: Day 1, Day 2, Day 3.

    It almost makes me wish I had stayed home . . .

    And while you’re at Gothamist, be sure to check out Gothamist Food, for what the real New Yorkers are eating while the delegates are at Applebee’s and Red Lobster.

  • A Bicycle Built for Two

    I just returned from a weekend in Oconomowoc, Wisconsin, at the wedding of my dear friends Doug and Leora. Doug I have known for about a decade at this point, and it was several years ago while training for our second AIDS Ride that we both had the pleasure of meeting Leora. It has always been clear that they were a good fit for each other, particularly when he brought her to OJ for the first time to meet our group of college friends. We’re a little hard to bust into from the outside, and I’ve always known that the right guy for me will be one who would fit in at OJ, our annual fall getaway weekend — if he didn’t like the weekend, or my friends, or if my friends didn’t like him, he would be out. I know Doug felt the same way, so when Leora blended in seamlessly, it was like a seal of approval. Training for another ride the following year, I got to know Leora even better as we chatted away the miles (she and I ride about the same pace; Doug’s somewhat faster), and to develop a friendship with her beyond just as “Doug’s girlfriend.”

    Joining them to celebrate their wedding was a reaffirmation of my initial impressions of their relationship — they fit perfectly together, and it was such a treat to take part in a wedding that truly celebrated this fit, filled with love, laughter, joy, friends, family and tears. Congratulations to both of you — enjoy the next leg of the ride.

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    You can see the rest of the pictures here, and read PlanetGordon for the backstory on the wedding.

  • Scheduling a Date in NYC

    I am convinced that dating in New York is different from dating in other parts of the world. Let’s do a case study, shall we?

    Girl meets boy at her local neighborhood joint, chatting amiably over dinner at the bar, each having brought, but then ignored, their respective reading materials (she, the New Yorker; he, the Economist or some such). Girl’s friends show up, strategically tricking boy to stay for about twenty minutes longer than he initially intended, and to drink more wine (girl’s friends are fantastic wingpeople). Boy invites girl to go see a band on the LES (she has convinced him to go see this particular band rather than the one he initially chose because they rock, and her neighbor’s in it). Girl expresses interest, but politely declines, since it is already 11:45 on a school night. “Some other time, perhaps?” says girl, coyly. Boy and girl exchange business cards and go their separate ways, each going away for the weekend.

    Boy emails girl the following week, scoring major points with girl. After polite back and forth email banter about how good the band was, boy and girl agree to go out for a drink, dinner, or possibly even to see another band. Then, the scheduling negotiations begin. The negotiations are frustrated by a) girl’s busy social life; b) boy’s demanding work schedule; c) the impending Republican invasion, during which the girl is getting the hell out of Dodge; d) girl’s trip to the wedding in Wisconsin; e) boy’s business school alumni event on the one night she has free this week and work-related dinner on the one night she’ll be in town between the wedding and the aforementioned escape; f) boy’s current affliction with poison ivy, which he contracted during last weekend’s out of town jaunt; g) all of the above.

    Boy and girl plan to go out for a drink in early 2005.

  • The Non-Welcome Mat

    As I walked to and from work yesterday, I noticed more and more signs which indicated that New Yorkers are gearing up for the convention. None quite as obvious as the one I saw last week, but effective nonetheless.

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    And also, for your downloading pleasure, even more: RNCNotWelcome.org

  • Pictures, Pictures, and More Pictures

    Tonight, it’s all about the pictures. I just returned from a relaxing, food and fun-filled beach weekend on Fire Island, thanks to my friend Carrie. Now, I’ve always shied away from share houses — images of frat-partyesque Hamptons houses come to mind. And although there were bunk beds, and not everyone did their fair share of the dishes, the house in Kismet was mellow, the people were friendly, fun, interesting, and best of all, they loved to cook and eat. Dinner upon our arrival was spicy sausages and cajun catfish on the grill, cocktail hour on Saturday included fresh peach margaritas, and Saturday’s dinner was a pork loin, roasted on the rotisserie, rubbed with fresh herbs, garlic, and olive oil, accompanied by stuffed portabello mushrooms with pesto and roasted potatoes. Mmm. I had a very relaxing weekend, and enjoyed being out at the beach, despite the torrential downpours on Saturday. You can see the pictures here. If you’re from the house and have stopped by to see the pictures, leave a comment or send me an email. Thanks again to everyone!

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    And also for your enjoyment, pictures from the Party in my Panties. You can see them here.

  • The Spectrum

    From Cewebrity! (we love to love ’em) to this (we love to hate ’em):

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    courtesy of Hugh at Gaping Void

    I’m off to Fire Island for the weekend — have a good one!

  • He’s Gonna Have One Hell of a Hangover

    From my friend Rob this morning: “I would get along with this bear.” Perhaps we should invite him to join the wine club society?

  • A Picture is Worth . . .

    Because I know that’s what you really want, anyway. The fun part about going out with bloggers, even if it’s just a casual night out for wings, is that whatever silly, goofy thing you do, it’s all over the internet the next day.

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    The wings per person consumption chart.

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    Some of the lovely ladies who blog.

    And Joe, I love, love, love the chart.

  • Getting Ready for our Republican Visitors

    2004_08_0089Saw this while walking down 7th Avenue yesterday — it was being put up by “Steel Workers for John Kerry.”

    2004_08_0091_r1Later that night, ran into Augie who was sporting his own political statement.

    We’re ready for you republican types. How do ya like them apples?!